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Honest examination
Before and during a dynamic
The Self-Assessment
A private mirror for the dynamic you’re in — or the one you’re considering. Distinguishes chosen engagement from compulsion, with the red lines marked as red lines.
Before You Send
The pre-entry guide: ceilings, hard limits, exits, and scam patterns — decided while you’re calm, because once it starts, you won’t be. Includes a commitment card to copy into your notes.
Reading & Resources
The annotated support list — consent frameworks, economic-abuse services, compulsive-spending support, and serious writing on the psychology. Worth reading before, during, or instead.
Working instruments
For the practice itself
The Glossary
The full practitioner vocabulary, A to Z, interactive and searchable. The language is half the practice.
The Contract Builder
Draft a complete dynamic agreement — roles, limits, tribute structure, exit terms — and export it as a PDF. Saves progress in your browser only.
The Edging Trainer
A guided control-and-denial session tool with visual pacing and spoken instruction. Runs locally; configure and begin.
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