The message from Ryan is direct about what he is and what he offers.

I'm straight. Not bi, not questioning, not performing straightness for the dynamic — genuinely straight. I run findom sessions with gay submissives specifically because the indifference is real rather than performed. I don't want you. The financial submission goes to someone who isn't sexually interested in you and that specific quality produces something that same-orientation dynamics don't. If that's what you're looking for, contact me.

You read it carefully.

The module names this precisely: the specific charge of submitting financially to a straight man is the indifference itself. Not cruelty, not contempt — the genuine absence of sexual interest that makes the submission asymmetric in a way that same-orientation dynamics aren't. The submissive is interested. The dominant genuinely isn't. That asymmetry is the dynamic's engine.

You've been in findom with gay dominants and with men whose orientation was ambiguous. You understand from the inside what those dynamics produce. You've been curious about this specific thing for a long time.

The question is how you engage with the curiosity.

The Indifference